Never give without warmth and love - people are not charity cases, but human hearts
"I do not plead for returning calls, handshakes, chairs, dinners and teas as such.
I do on the other hand plead for all of them and more if they can be expressions of a friendly feeling, if these or anything else can be the outward proofs of a real willingness on the part of a foreigner to show that he is in the midst of the people to be to them not a lord and master but a brother and a friend
We ask for love.
Give us friends."
Bishop Azariah from India, 1910 Conference to missionaries in Edinburgh, Scotland